Do or Drink Card Game Rules: How to Play and Make the Most of Your Game Night

Do or Drink Card Game Rules (2026 Guide)

As an Amazon Associate we earn from qualifying purchases. Full details on our Affiliate Disclosure page.

Do or Drink rules (2026) — how a round actually runs, how to keep a pass honest, and when to put the deck away. This is an adults-only opt-in game. Nobody owes the table a drink or a dare.

If the room is mixed or sober-first, switch to Taco Cat or Flip 7.

The deck and the off-ramps

Do or Drink is the spicy opt-in. The other two are how you start the night without peer pressure.

Setup

Adults who want to play sit in. Anyone who wants to watch or play a different game is not “in.” Put the do-or-drink deck in the center. Agree the drink size before card one — a sip, not a penalty pour. Agree that “pass” means skip both the do and the drink with no speech about why. If the table will not agree to a pass, do not start.

A turn

  • Draw one card. Read it out loud.
  • Do the action, or take the agreed sip, or pass.
  • Cards that target another player still need that person’s yes. “Make Alex do it” is not consent.
  • Skip any card about bodies, exes, or work if one player flinches. Bury it. Do not debate the flinch.
  • The round ends at a time you set, not when the deck is gone. Forty minutes is plenty.

Host rules

  • Water on the table. Food before round two.
  • One sober person if anyone is actually drinking, even if they are not playing.
  • No filming cards. The joke dies on a group chat the next day.
  • Have Flip 7 in the same bag so you can pivot without a speech.

FAQ

Is this a drinking game or a dare game?

It is a choice game. If your group treats the sip as mandatory and the pass as cowardice, you are playing a different, worse game. Stop.

Can we play with soda?

Yes. The mechanic is the choice, not the alcohol. Say that when you teach it.

A sample teach, out loud

Say this before the first card: “Read it. Do it, sip, or pass. A pass ends your turn. You do not explain. If a card names another person, that person can refuse and the card is buried.” Then demonstrate with a card you already know is mild. If someone jokes that passes are shameful, stop the game and switch decks. You will not repair that norm mid-round.

Back to blog

Introducing: Pick Me Up–The New Pickup Line Card Game

Pick Me Up is a card game that's fun, flirty, and kinda dirty. Play this at your next game night with friends and turn cheesy pickup lines into hours of flirtatious fun! Click the button below to order now!

Pick Me Up party game box — fun, flirty & kinda dirty 18+ pickup-line card game

Pick Me Up–Now Available!

Pick Me Up is a question and response party game that turns cheesy pick up lines into hours of flirtatious fun. Get flirty with friends, make your crush blush, and practice your pickup lines before you make a fool of yourself at the bar.

What's inside your box:

😇 5 Consent Cards
🍆 60 Sultry Scenario Cards
🍑 300 Provocative Pickup Line Cards
💦 Totally Unnecessary Instructions
🤫 My Phone Number

BUY NOW